Orientation

Most of us have felt a moment where we really dropped into a felt sense of well being and coherence. Maybe there was an effortless peace, or maybe the heart felt open and available to life.SII operates with the understanding that these experiences are not random, but rather moments when the internal programs stop running and the natural presence within is felt directly.The roadmap that is offered is geared to help you connect to this well being consistently and to do the integrative work at the root nervous system level so that these experiences become your norm, not a peak or random state.The practices are gentle, compassionate, and present moment based. SII strives to make the integration process as direct and efficient as possible, so that years of contemplating and searching can be distilled into quick practical recognitions. Notice whatever pattern you are experiencing, and apply the appropriate simple mindful tool that supports it’s integration.As patterns complete, the well being becomes easier to access. As the well being is accessed more, it becomes the norm.Rest in your natural self. Live from coherence.Stillness. Breath. Tone. Mantras. Inquiry. Compassion. Inclusion. Clarity.

Testimonials:

"Working with the ‘survival identities’ outlined by Pej has enabled me to shift patterns in my life in a more lasting way than any other approach I’ve tried. We worked specifically on integrating the ‘harmonizer’ identity, and gradually through deep, repeated work in our sessions this identity diffused its power in my relationships. I am now able to hold healthy boundaries while maintaining closeness with others, and no longer experience my former patterns with enmeshment and codependency.” - Shelby Baldridge“✨During a significant life transition, I found myself facing core fears and old patterns that created a lot of inner uncertainty. While I often appeared calm on the surface, internally I was navigating waves of fear and instability.
Through our work together, something shifted in a very real way. My sense of inner certainty has stabilized, and my ability to stay present with life has returned. There is a greater ease in my nervous system now, a quiet steadiness that wasn’t there before. The internal loops of turmoil that once felt overwhelming are no longer running.” - Danijela Zakic.This is a man who knows much about personal development and mastery....and yippee for us, he knows how to bring that out in those he works with as well! Thank you for wanting more from yourself and from your world. Thank you for assisting me in unlocking my potential, both personally and professionally! Thank you, Peijman!!"
-Andrea Bell"Amazing calming soul to express freely with. Digs deeps and moves at a good pace of growing and healing. Couldn't be happier with the exchange and insight that Pej brings to the table."- Spencer K"Pej is amazing. My wife and I decided to get some pre-marriage counseling before we tied the knot, and Pej has been nothing short of miraculous. We had a great relationship before meeting Pej, but wanted to work through some issues of the sort that a couple might face even in a healthy relationship. As a result, our relationship is stronger than ever, and we've reached a level of happiness that we could never have achieved without him." - Steve Scherf.

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Facilitating Groups

I offer in person monthly group workshops, as well as facilitate longer form retreat immersions.

What this work makes possible:

• More creative flow, and compassionate love for self and others.
• Presence becomes natural, not something you maintain
• Patterns and conditioning soften and ultimately stop cycling
• Emotional reactions resolve instead of lingering
• The pressure to perform, fix, or manage yourself drops
• Decisions and actions become simple and direct
• Feeling at home in your body and trusting of your life direction

This is for you if:

• You want to experience a consistent sense of well being and flow.
• You are ready to do the deep work to allow your authentic self in everyday life.
• You’ve experienced presence, but want to stabilize it

What a session is like:

• direct
• experiential
• focused on what’s happening in real timeYou won’t be analyzing your past or trying to fix thoughts.We work with what’s actually happening in your system, in the moment.

How This Work Emerged

I arrived at this work out of necessity, not theory.I’ve been a full time private-practice certified coach and somatic therapist since the early 2010. As I was supporting individuals and couples in private sessions, I was also continuing my training and personal evolution through studying with meditation and presence teachers. This brought me great healing, but I also knew there was more.Out of necessity to support my own healing, I started combining my somatic therapy training and my presence oriented training together. What I found was a new system that really brought the two together in ways that not only brought my own integration to a new level, but it immediately resonated with clients.

What Became Visible

Following that impulse led to the discovery of what I now call survival identities.First the Performer — organized around doing it right.Then the Harmonizer — organized around managing connections.Then the Protector — organized around vigilance and anticipation.What surprised me was that these weren’t personal quirks. They were nervous system patterns, and they showed up consistently in others once I knew how to see them.As I developed a precise way to integrate these identities at the root, defensive emotional cycles ended decisively; guilt, shame, anxiety, urgency, over-responsibility, overthinking, and many others stopped recycling.

The importance of Presence AND Integrative work

With my one on one coaching and group work I always bring in practices to help people awaken to presence (their natural self), as well as provide reliable integration tools to do the deep work to allow presence to be a baseline.If we don't know who we really are at the level of presence, then healing is endless and much more painful.If we only do practices to awaken to presence, we don't allow space for the deep integrations that need to happen. SII was built to make that integration as seamless and direct as possible.

What This Makes Possible

Years of searching through therapy or contemplation may not be needed.What I've done is already outlined the main patterns people are experiencing. So you don't have to figure it out. We are all unique in how our lives play out the patterns, but the nature of the patterns themselves are astonishingly similar at the root. This work helps you heal at the source.This work is not just about integrating identities efficiently. This is about going all the way and living from presence as a baseline.Regardless of where you are in your path, this works supports continued integration and deepening.If you need trauma healing this applies. If you want more flow and presence in your work, this applies. If you want harmonious relationship with others, this applies.Ultimately, this is about letting go of all conditioning and patterns so what is left is the loving compassionate presence and how that wants to express in the world.

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